Today I started thinking about the importance of allowing life to flow and guide us to what’s best for us. I have spent my 20’s like most people casually dating and trying to find the “right” or “best” possible match. Each time I thought I had found one “better” than the last it would in one way or another not workout. Sometimes it was my choice to leave the relationship. Sometimes it was on their end. Fear would ensue and I’d find myself trying to hold onto something that I really had no control over. How can you control love? How can you control who comes in and out of your life? You honestly can’t…
After each relationship ending I would look back and realize it wasn’t as great as I thought it was. But each one still had a purpose. I learned more from each one about what I need in a relationship. Or perhaps I healed an old wound I didn’t even realize needed to be healed. Or I learned how to care more for myself. Or how to be more loving and open to someone else. Each one taught me something…
And so the most important lesson right now I feel like we all need to learn is to just allow life to be. Allow what is happening to happen knowing it is for the best. It is for the best. When we get caught up in the confusion of “why is this happening to me?!” we completely lose ourselves. We get completely off balance. And it’s only when we look back that we realize something really was for the best.
So I leave you with this thought. Let go and allow the higher power that guides everything to make what’s best happen. Trust it, love it, attune yourself to it. It’s through allowing that we can make space for what’s best for us. And also let go of the mania from trying to control and understand what we cannot control and understand.
Sending you much peace, love and light,
Eros
Eros V 